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Saturday, 28 February 2015

When Alawee stop

One year has it been? Yes one year it has been. No more "federal alawee" no more PPA, no more kaki and no more CDS. You have been hitherto called government "pikin" now all that's over. You are now on your own, yes pure "OYO" and you have to take responsibility for yourself. Yes your parents are proud of you but I'm guessing you know what that mean, in case you are still naive I'll tell you, it means reduced allowances, your clothing, your feeding to some extent and if you are a woman all of your womanly needs is now your responsibility.
You may look for work or start something with what you have right where you are. A wise man once said, if you work for someone you can feed yourself, if someone works for you, you will feed others. My whatsapp profile has been buzzing with different kinds of broadcast messages about job opportunities and recruitment here and there. It's wonderful but if you can go out there and create jobs then do it.
I guess it all depends on your dreams but whatever the case may be go out there and make history, be the impact we've been clamouring for, be punctual, be polite, love truly, be inspired, be confident, be you.


CONGRATULATIONS NYSC BATCH A 2014/2015

Tuesday, 17 February 2015

Choosing with others.

Relationships are hard work. This of course is a known fact. It's requires lots of effort and work to gain someone's trust enough for them to trust you not to break their heart. Even after that you must spend the entire relationship reassuring him or her as the case may be. Now you've worked hard and the trust has been built. You are close to the promise land in a matter of speaking suddenly you realise you haven't considered all stakeholders.


Yes stakeholders, because relationship goes beyond two. It may start with two but like everything that has life the law of growth sets in. Now though there were two of you, to take important decisions like spending your life together, it takes more than two.


Love they say is not enough. Although the two of you will live together but your world is bigger than just the two of you. In going into a relationship, you need to consider also your life with your family and friends. You need to even project into the future and consider the kind of people you'll be expecting to come into your life. Your relationship with others should be considered in making your choice.