We are almost there

It's exactly 10:00 pm 31-12-2014 as at the time of writing this, in exactly two hours we will be in a brand new year. kinda make you wonder, kinda make you ask, what lies ahead? how's the coming year gonna be like. At exactly this time next year will i relish the year well spent or just go to bed early hoping to forget the year altogether. Well it's a matter of choice really. If you haven't decided that yet please do it now. A wise man once said, Doing the same thing repeatedly the same way and expecting a different result is the definition of madness. If we don't decide to be better, then circumstances would make the choice for us, and as a matter of fact a decision would have been made. Deciding not to decide is a decision, Choosing not to choose is a choice.

Happy New Year in advance.

2014

The countdown is on. In this moments all we have left to do is personal reflection. Is the year one to remember for the rest of your life or a memory to quickly discard? How many of your resolutions were you faithful to? Did you achieve everything you set out to do? 

I looked up 2014 on Google and there's this first part where it says 2014 trending topics, guess what we have; Ebola(epidemic), 2014 World Cup(good), ASUP Strike (terrible), Myles Munroe (death), Kefee (death). Are these what we would remember 2014 by? the deaths, the epidemics, the natural disasters. But why? Where did we get it all wrong. Is it predestination or the result of our choices? What could we have done differently?

 In a few days our marriage to year 2014 will be over and a new bride comes home. One can only but wonder what the bride will bring along. Would we come back from work and meet our food freshly prepared an waiting on the table or shall we have to live on junks? Will our children get to school timely if they go at all? What exactly can we expect from 2015? If the old saying about beds remain true then God help us we haven't laid a good bed. 

So then is there hope? i'd say YES. We can learn from our mistakes, make better choices, be our brother's keeper. We can make this world a better place to live by making ourselves better people to be with. We can protect our home from dying. We can fight corruption, we can beat the sun and win against global warming. We can beat epidemics. We can beat insurgences. We can beat terrorism. We can take back our home. We got to stop running, waiting for others to take the initiative.

We cannot loose hope, for our sake for our children sake and our children-children sake, there's a new dawn coming. There's a new horizon, HAPPY NEW YEAR in advance.

Share this.

Breath of fresh air

Posting a comment is now easy. Simply click on post a comment or add comment, type your comment, select your profile e.g Anonymous and click publish to finish

Merry Christmas World

Wishing you lots of happiness and love this season, may your Christmas be special as you are special.

Bringing you warm wishes this Christmas, hope you have an amazing experience.

Have fun as much as you can but please put moderation into everything you do. Let there be enough chickens left in the world for next year's Christmas.

Go ahead and enjoy yourself.

Ps Alexander.

Merry Christmas

With lots of love from the bottom of my heart, I wish you a beautiful Christmas. Eat and drink responsibly.

Ps with love Alexander

Christmas Love

There is something about Christmas that I have observed over the years. People buy clothes and jewelleries, bag of rice and two or three big fowls to go with it. Yea I said fowls cause some people do duck. I remember back in the days we had duck instead. Cute right? But that's not story today. What I observe and really want share is that towards the end of the year people get just a little bit more desperate to find a relationship and for those already in one they work harder to keep.
Why? In my humble opinion I think it's because Christmas being a season of love and all, nobody wants to spend Christmas a loner.


The interesting thing is, this action seem to be involuntary, it's seem to be just an impulse, just a force driving us as human right from the inside. It's not planned for , not given any thought at all. People don't even know they are doing it. We just do it. It just happens.


I for one save last Christmas and this one have always found myself in one relationship around Christmas even if all year I have been single. Believe me it just happened. I know a lot of people out there can relate to this. So what's really happening? And why? Will it always be this way?


Well, now you know, rice and chicken and wearing expensive clothes alone don't make Christmas. What makes Christmas is love so spread some love and you're not alone should you be a having this experience too.


Just one final word though, man hold on to your spouse even tighter at Christmas, woman adore your man more at Christmas, singles hope you find love at Christmas but if you can't find love at Christmas, don't worry, be happy, hakuna matata, you still got valentine.


Ps love Alexander.

Happy xmas in a funny way

IMAGINE IF THE WISE MEN HAD BEEN WOMEN.
.
1. Dey would have asked 4 directions instead of following the star.

2. They would have presented gifts such as
pampers, feeding bottle, napkins and so on.
3. After leaving one would have told de other ''did u see Mary's shoes, they don't match her dress''.
4. One would av also said ''I heard Joseph is not working, how can they survive?''.

5. Another would av also said ''the baby doesn't even resemble Joseph, was she really a virgin?''.

6. One would have replied ''Virgin indeed, I
knew Mary during SECONDARY SCHOOL. . .

7. One would have said imagine a carpenter
when my own husband is a tax officer Chai!.......Gals and amebo eh.. HAPPY Xmas in
advance.

Love games

Since the Xmas season is a season of love I have decided to share something I recently learnt with you. Now someone made this statement that "in courtship the woman rules but in marriage the man rules". The person further explained that during courtship, the man should strive to please the woman in every way but in marriage the table of course should properly reverse. I find the idea quite intriguing, sound believable too. Do you concur to this? If yes, why? Then why do lots of men still boss or "husbandize" their dating or courtship. Making "the rules as they go" to quote Beyonce.

Xmas fever

I'm in the north of Nigeria right now so the Christmas fever here is really low, especially in the north west. So on a scale of 1 through 10, how would you rate the Xmas fever where you are right now? I'll give Kebbi state, Kamba a 1.

Think about it

I loved this and I must share with you.
Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life.
Never ask for a lighter rain, just pray to God for a better umbrella. - That is the attitude!
Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. It's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end.
Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them; a Wall or a Bridge? - Remember you are the architect of your life.
Search for a good heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, coz beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.
It’s not important to hold all the good cards in life, but it’s important how well you play with the cards you hold.
Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, remember God and pray, it’s just a bend, not the end.' -
Have faith and have a successful life.
One of the basic differences between God and humans is, God gives, gives and forgives. But the human gets, gets, gets and forgets.
Be thankful in life...
If u think it is your alarm clock that woke you up this morning, try putting it beside a dead body and you will realise that it is the Grace of God that woke you up.
If you are grateful to God, forward this to all your friends to inform them that it is JUST BY THE GRACE OF GOD that we are alive.

How do we choose our friends

Sometimes you are with someone for years but they never really know you neither do you know them then you meet another person and it feels like you've known them all your life. Does our hearts really choose our friends or is it our character. Maybe it's our temperaments better still it could be a matter of choice. It's kinda hard to determine don't you think.

Long distant fall

I have always been fascinated by how one could fall in love with someone hundreds of miles or thousands of miles away, especially when the two have never met, not even once. Is that really love?

The rules of love

So I saw this book in a friend's bookshelf "the rules of love". But really does love have rules?

What's the difference between love and care

This evening i was just thinking about some recent events in my life and i started asking myself, what is the difference between love and care? Why do people mix it all up?

welcome

welcome to my blog, my name is Ore Alexander, whatever is it you want to talk about I'm here for you. I'll listen to you and be as objective as possible. Feel free to express yourself. Once again, you are welcome